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What We’re Doing, And How We’d Like YOU To Be Involved
‘The Sisterwives’ is what happens when nine women decide that alone they are enough, but together they are stronger.
We began as a support group on Facebook.
A safe haven to check in throughout the day. To find support. To post our joys, our sadness, our triumphs and our pain.
It was a little miracle.
Because we found that we were all more alike than different.
We found that we’d been through SO MANY of the same experiences.
We found a commonality in how we approached life.
That it was to be lived with happiness. That we are meant to move through tragedy into hope, and gratitude.
We live in 5 different time zones.
And at any given moment, someone is almost ALWAYS around.
We post videos.
Sing to each other.
Make ridiculous jokes.
Lift each other up, during the darkest of times.
And with all this support and unconditional love,
with our positive spin on life,
we felt it was time to move out into the Blogosphere.
And give YOU the same kind of support and unconditional love we give each other.
We’re going to start by sharing some of our stories over the next month.
And then, we are committed to encouraging others to Write Free!
and demonstrate that good can come even of the worst pain, when used to help others.
This is a place to raise awareness, offer support and provide resources.
This is a place to seek out silver linings and celebrate them together.
We want YOU to submit your stories.
Raise awareness for what you’ve been through.
Find solace amongst others who have had similar experiences.
Some will support you in sharing your story. Some desperately needed to have read what you wrote, because they were unable to.
This blog is the safest place in the world to do that, because here, there is no judgment – we will brook no malice, no intent to destroy or tear others down.
This is a place for compassion.
This is a place for love.
This is a place where we encourage lots and lots of interaction in the comment section.
Yes, please feel free to go off on tangents if you like! As long as you play nicely with the others.
And so that’s what’s on offer – our love, poured out through this project, into the Blogosphere.
Life is messy and brutiful, and we want you to share your Big Uglies, your sharp corners and the complex, kaleidoscope of wonderfulness which has shaped you into the person you are today.
Alone we are enough, but together we are stronger.
Stand with us, and Write Free!
Our topics will include:
Abuse
Addiction
Beauty and Wonder
Family
Friendships
Grief
Life and its challenges
Matters of the body
Matters of the heart
Matters of the soul
Mental illness
Silver Linings
Relationships
Upliftings
We will begin with broad brush-strokes.
Over the next month, you will get to know us as we each share one of the (many, many) aspects of our lives we want to share.
Then we begin reviewing submissions and organizing a guest-posting schedule – we hope to feature one new story each week from YOU.
So start thinking – in fact, no.
Start WRITING.
And to briefly disappear off on a tangent (which we utterly reserve the right to do, as the mood takes us) it is absolutely vital to recognize a SisterWife who proved herself absolutely instrumental in setting up the site and getting things going, but whose plate is full with other exciting projects at the moment.
Our respect, love and HUGE gratitude go to Laura, for helping to make this possible.
xoxo
The SisterWives
This is turning out to be everything I hoped it would be. Love the initiative. A big thumbs up!
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Thank you! And think…this is just the beginning. It’s only going to get better!
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Can’t wait for this to take off in a BIG way!
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I didn’t realize how much I need a community like this until I read this post and felt like the little match girl looking through the glass from the outside.
This is amazing.
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Ah! But you aren’t on the outside. We want you to be part of this. Read, comment, submit. The whole point is to share and be heard, start a conversation. A really big one! I, for one, am very glad you are here.
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Thank you! I plan to. This is awesome..to steal from Jana’s comment..I do have some things I want to say, but can’t on my blog. I’m fairly open..but I don’t want to hurt anyone.
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How would you like stories submitted? Or is that posted somewhere and I missed it.
I probably missed it.
I’m old. That’s my excuse.
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There’s a submissions tab on the menu bar up top :).
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And we are glad YOU are here. Community is a great way to describe this blog, and when it’s time to share your stories, you can count on this community to offer you unconditional support.
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Michelle!!! I adore you and am thrilled you’ll be hanging around the SW abode and contributing (I hope!).
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Don’t be a little match girl – get stuck in 😀 We’d love to have you participate in this with us 😀 Everyone needs people around them.
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Ohhh, this is wonderful! I have some stories that I have been wanting to write, but it is not something I feel comfortable posting on my blog. My children and family often read my blog and this is information I’m just not ready to share with them yet — but it is screaming at me to get out of my head and into written form. Do our stories have to have some sort of moral or resolution? So often, I’m just writing to try to make sense of life, my feelings, and what’s happening at that moment. I don’t have any great life lessons or wise realizations to share (yet).
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Jana, this blog is exactly what you need. I too have posts that I’m not comfortable posting on my own blog, and this is YOUR safe place. Let those words scream into writing, and send us your story.
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Exactly. No resolutions or morals required. We aren’t writing Aesop’s Fables here, we’re trying to use writing to polish off something dirty, bit by bit, until it finally reflects the light.
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Jana – I’m so excited you’ll be joining in and sharing!!! I know you have stories you need/want to tell. We’re here for YOU.
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I’m already getting emotional just from these introductory posts! Nice work ladies. I think you’re doing something beautiful here.
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Please please be part of it.
You have incredible stories to share. You overcome so much, everyday. With grace and humor.
Thank you for supporting us, Steph.
~Samara
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I’d love to! Thank you guys for doing this.
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When women come together, NOTHING can stop them. Nothing.
United, we can transform the world. United, we can Kick Ass (In a good way)
I am willing to contribute. Just let me know what you want. xxx LOVE what you are doing here.
Applauding in Minnesota))) xx
It is said that if you want to change the world, take pen and write…
― Israelmore Ayivor,
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*chills* I lurve you, Kim!
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Truer words were never spoken.
Women should ONLY support each other. Not tear each other down.
So glad you’re going to contribute.
~Samara
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Y’all are awesome. ❤
That's all I have for now.
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Well, that’ll do for now 😉 So glad you’re here!
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Right back at ya, chica.
Submit something soon. xo
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This is so awesome. Super proud of you brave ladies. Watching this grow is going to be amazing. I’ll send you a post soon 😀
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You know you had a huge part in making this happen. I don’t forget that! Thank you. And I believe you’re right…this is going to be amazing!
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Well, you all are so welcome. Glad to help out.
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I think this will be the perfect place to share my daughter’s story! It is something that needs to be said and read by more than just my little blog. I will put it together. A lot of it is her words that she has written, I just have to give a little background.
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I’m so glad that you find this a safe place to share your daughter’s story. That is exactly what we are hoping for. Thank you for supporting and allowing us to do the same for you, and your daughter. I’ll look forward to reading your submission when you’re ready!
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I’m generally a wait-and-see kind of person when it comes to reaching an opinion about the success of new projects. However, when it comes to the Sisterwives, I’ve waited long enough and am of the conservative opinion that this is going to be Absatotally Fantastical.
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‘Absatotally Fantastical’….I can’t imagine it gets much better than that! Thanks for the confidence and encouragement. We will do our best to live up to this amazing comment.
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In many ways, you ladies already have. I think of this in the same way as having the best recipe to your favorite dessert; you know it’s going to be good because you’ve already been sampling the incredible ingredients.
The rest is “icing on the cake” 😉
Cheers to all of you and this new venture, Sandy.
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I know the phrase “AbFab” is already taken, but, it’s easier to say than Absatotally Fantastical (and easier to type, too).
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Haha! Except it makes me think I need to do some crunches at the gym or something…
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Submissions, eh?
What about short bits of (relevant) fiction…?
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You know what?
We hadn’t really thought about that.
But now we should! If it’s relevant…
hmmm. Sounds very interesting.
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Okay, groovy.
I don’t actually have anything in mind at the moment but an idea could easily ‘ding’ up at some point in the near future once I get more of a feel for what appears on the blog.
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After all that, you don’t have anything?
Well, get on it! Stat!
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I’d love to be involved, but I’m really excited about reading what’s here. I love this idea, a lot. 🙂
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Fabulous, Samantha. I’m pleased to hear it. Although it’s not perhaps as clear as it should be, there’s a submissions button *mutters and waves vaguely* somewhereupthere and you can feel absolutely free to use it 😀
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Thank you, I’ll do that 😀
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I’m so stoked to see this take off! I’d love to write for you guys some time… But, I need someone to pick a topic for me, haha. Jennie, any ideas?
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Well, I’m not Jennie. But, since she is my blog wife, I feel like I can answer on her behalf.
I haven’t a clue.
hahahahahaha
Jennie will probably have some ideas; she’s a lot smarter than I am.
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Yeay for shooting in the dark!
Jennie asked me to write a guest post earlier this week, which is why I called her out by name. We’ll see what she has to say. 🙂
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You guys will do wonderful things together! I just know it. You are all such talented writers, and so open and kind. I look forward to hearing all your stories. Site looks great!
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Thanks Amy – we’re so grateful to Laura for making the site so beautiful. I know Deanna did a lot, too. This is the great thing about a big group – there’s usually *someone* with a particular set of skills to call upon in a time of need 🙂
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Oh… I know how I want to be involved… and it goes way beyond the things listed here… or, as I just commented over on Samara’s blog:
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I think it would be nice if you all made an announcement that I am the official male court jester of the sister wives project… and honorary holder of some sort of title… like: ‘That dude who is frighteningly in touch with his feminine side’ or ‘That one guy who doesn’t drive us all crazy because he doesn’t take being a man too seriously’ or ‘That asshole who threatened to sick the ACLU on us and start a lawsuit if we didn’t let him into our awesome club’… or even: ‘The one guy on the planet that we all love so much that we have decided to pretend he has a vagina’…
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So rest easy, ladies… I am here for you… even if all I get to do is kill spiders, take heavy things off high shelves… and stand around looking handsome.
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Art my love, my blog brother, we will find a suitable “official title” for you.
Because you are awesome and we love you.
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I promised myself I wasn’t going to cry… screw it… sob…
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That is why I have always preferred the company of women… and gay guys… this whole notion that men don’t show or share their emotions is the stupidest thing men ever thought up.
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So you prefer gay men?
Hmmm. would you like to talk about this?
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Sure… I love the gay guys. The thing about straight men is that they are so suppressed. It is like they are programmed to like certain things and act certain ways. They don’t tend to have deep conversations. I never feel like I have much in common with them. I am very artistic and sensitive. I love flowers and babies and sunsets. I write tender love ballads. I don’t care about cars or sports. I don’t spit. Gay guys have the emotional depth of women, but I still get to hang out with dudes.
I have male friends that are straight. Most of them I know from when I grew up. I still hang out with them when I go back to my mom’s house. I am not against straight men, I just feel sort of out of place. Does that make sense?
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Totally.
All my favorite men feel more comfortable around women and gay men. True story.
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Well then you have a new favorite man in your life I guess.
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Art my love, you’ve been one of my favorite men for a long time now.
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There, there.
It’s going to be okay.
Would you like some jelly beans?
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I loves me some jelly beans… thanks
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Now you must all gather around me, and we will have a slumber party and eat ice cream all night while you cheer me up… right?
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I have just been so emotional lately… and I think I am retaining water…
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Hmmm.
Are you approaching Shark Week?
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Oh, I am jumping the shark… HA!
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SLUMBER PARTY!
with ice cream and pillow fights and toenail painting and hair curlers and mind blowing peyote and wait, WHAT?
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Oh man… every guy on the planet would hate me with a jealous passion!
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You’re so freakin’ cool they probably do already!
hahahahahaha
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Oh… good point… thanks.
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It will be a pleasure to read everyone’s stories. I have a few myself, but we’ll see how things go. I love the concept you ladies have here and I’m so looking forward to the great things you all will achieve.
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Yes, Jackie – take some time, if you’d like, to see what we’re about.
We’re not showcasing any submissions the first month, so you have time to mull it over.
But I KNOW you have some stories to tell.
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You want me to be involved? Well, this’ll probably be the closest I can get to multiple wives without invoking Cimmy’s jealous wrath. I’d insert a witty joke about Big Love and Mormon history with polygyny, but, I got nothin’. The Original Wife Called Mother Nature is too busy kicking my ass right now.
And already I lack humor on the subject; my comment on Samara’s guest post at Daile’s should say it all. But I had a mighty delightful discussion with Girlsule on that post, so don’t give up on my yet.
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Hang in there, Jak. I know you’re going through a lot.
P.S. Was I right, or was I right about these image code things that Lizzi uses? WTF?
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Oh, as usual, I was misunderstanding the concept of image mapping– it’s something Flickr does as well, but in a much more intuitive way. I mean, Flickr lets you add people to a photo– like, if there’s a photo my father-in-law has taken, and his eldest daughter– who is Cimmorene– is in it, I can add a little square to the photo that links to her photostream (sitori6).
I don’t know if I’ll use this tool just quite yet, because Cimmy has three blogs, I have two, and then there is yet another one that we work on jointly. I’m not sure how to get eyeballs moving to ALL of our blogs… most people associate one user, one blog.
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How to submit? I have an idea of what to submit first.
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Scroll up. Up, up, up – keep going. Up and there!
at the top of the page – there’s a menu, in white letters.
Right under that big colorful sister wife-with-a-grill lady.
Click on “submissions.”
Yay!
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Okay… I’m unobservant…
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Nope. Every single person has asked the very same thing.
I think we needed to make more clear how to submit work. I was just being snarky, cos that’s my specialty.
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Yeah, whatever
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Don’t “whatever” me, Edward Hotspur!
Look at the comments! Everyone asked the same question!
Would you like some jelly beans?
*hands them as a peace offering*
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I submitted
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That’s what she said.
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Or he. Depending.
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Reblogged this on Edward Hotspur and commented:
Help push this blog out of you and into this world. Submit a post today!
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YOU, sir, are AWESOME!
At this rate, we’re probably going to have to make you an honorary sisterwife.
hahahahaha
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Thanks!
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This is such a fantastic idea and it is so incredibly powerful to watch all you ‘sisterwives’ extending your FB support group out into the blogosphere to spread the love. I’m excited about how this will unfold and grow 🙂
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Thank you so much!
I’ve never had a support system like this before, and they have given me so much strength and courage. It just seemed like the right thing to do, to let it spill out into the blogosphere.
xo
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How incredibly awesome. (Although at first I thought Sisterwives was like that show where all of you share one husband). Good luck to you and your blog, and you are welcome to use my post “reality check” (https://hobbling.wordpress.com/). It’s basically about me peeing myself. Sorry so graphic, but that’s life right?
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Oooh, this is going to be so much fun! It’s like a whole bunch of ladies hanging out in the women’s locker room (clothing optional) sharing our stories, jokes and laughs. Except that since you are being open to men (which is great) maybe we should remain clothed. 🙂
Looking forward to reading and sharing. Hasta la proxima! 🙂
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Yes, of course we’re open to men.
And clothing is STILL optional. Oh, yeah!
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I already follow some of you, but really happy to join you here. You ladies are the best!
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This is going to be an interesting read. I had better baheve myself over here!
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I do not know how I stumbled upon this site, but I am so excited to see what you make of it. I belong to a group of women that get together once a month and connect and learn from each other. I think this site will be that times a million! Also men, gay or straight or what ever, welcome! Maybe some day I will be brave enough to submit something. Good luck, I see beautiful things ahead for this blog.
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Looking forward to reading! 🙂
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Reblogged this on Gypsy Rue and commented:
I hope to have some of my blog posts featured here, so if you don’t want to read some of my depressed, abusive, nasty past, please don’t read any more. I’ll let you know when I’m back to writing more upbeat posts, natural living remedies and recipes. Thanks all!
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I missed reading this properly when first posted. Wish I had as I would have sent you my post ‘Jackhammer’ rather than posting it on my page. It is a story, sort of fiction, but it shows what goes on inside someone who has chronic panic disorder. I have never really written anything like that before and it sort of sticks out on my blog, but I am proud of it and I felt like I needed to get it out there so… bygones 🙂 I am looking forward to reading more of the stories 🙂
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I have read jackhammer, and it’s quite compelling. Panic Disorder is a topic we will most definitely cover here on this page. Please feel free to write about this or any topic and share it with us. We would love to have you here.
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Thank you, that’s a massive compliment, especially from someone who’s stories I enjoy so much 🙂
I’ll think on it, that story was just begging to get out of me and I was compelled to post it. I don’t know if I could do it again 🙂
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Sure you could…
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Hahaha all right I will give it a go
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I’m close with Hasty, and have been directed here many times, from her recommendations. Every time I read an entry, I’m amazed and the bravery and talent of the authors. So open and honest….what a rare quality to have from a GROUP of hurting women. I can appreciate such honesty.
Great work, ladies. If possible, I would LOVE to try to stand next to you in a post or two. – Crystal
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Don’t know how we missed this – but, YES, please send us a submission.
The blog post kind 🙂
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@Samara-I feel sad making this comment, but currently this is something only a group of women could do.or would do. Please consider me for membership in the Gentlemens Auxiliary with Ed and Art. Maybe Hasty will vouch for me and sponsor me. You “guys” are doing a great job here. A little departing sexism there. I mean, I don’t want to look toooo girly. 😉
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0h, but do I have stuffs and more stuffs I can share . . .
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Send it in, please! 🙂
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