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Flip it and Reverse it in the Man(di) Cave with Pumpkin Spiced Latte (PSL)
It’s that time of the month again. Shut up. I mean, it’s that time of the month for the SisterWives. No we haven’t all migrated to the same cycle. What is wrong with you people?
It’s our turn to answer some questions from our guys who were so gracious and fun to answer our questions on Monday. If you missed it, click here. Seriously, you need a laugh, so go. Then come back and see what we have to say.
Masturbation, a man’s sport, or are women up for playing ball too?
OK but it’s not called “Playing Ball” when we do it. Well, not when I do it. My favorite euphemism thus far is “Jilling Off.” And we totally do it.
I truly assumed it was common knowledge nowadays that this wasn’t just a man’s sport. I knew a couple once that considered masturbation cheating. Now that’s a friggin’ tragedy.
I promise it’s not the wine talking when I say masturbation is an equal opportunity sport for everyone. We all do it…well, most of us, anyway.
I have a theory. Those girls who wear their pearls and cross their legs and say, “I could never . . . ” are the same girls who complain at book club that they can’t have an orgasm. I can’t understand why anyone would not play ball. I mean, it’s satisfying, it’s easy, it’s not messy, and it takes less than a minute most of the time. To the girls who say, “I could never . . .” lemme shoot you straight. You wanna get to the the end of the rainbow we fun girls like to call “The Big O,” you gotta check in at home first. Explore the territory. See what you like, what you dislike, what feels right. Masturbate. Like a boss. Then when Mr. Poindexter is ready for a sweet vanilla romp missionary style, you can maneuver him so that he rocks your world, and in turn, you will his. You’re welcome. Oh and *whispers* keep the pearls on.
When hunting for your perfect partner does size matter (i.e. height, bank account, man parts), or is it really like in all those sappy movies where it’s only about the heart?)
For me, as is evidenced by my relationship history that is marred with beautiful broke losers, it’s about the libido first. Then the heart. Then the restraining order.
Interesting question, though, because I was so cautious by the time I met my husband I was very practical because enough, already. He turned out to be one of the best men I’ve ever known.
Heart matters big time. So does confidence and sense of humor. Those qualities are the sexiest things ever. Money is a plus, but really stability and security matter more than having 3 lake houses with a guy who’s a douche. Chemistry can overcome physical things that you may have thought were “musts” in a partner. And as far as weiners go? All you really need to know how to do is satisfy a woman in bed. Your tools aren’t as important as your mad-skillz.
Size only matters after all the other shit. Is a big dick awesome? Sure…but what if it’s wielded by an even bigger dick? Money in the bank is great, but what if the guy spends it all on strippers and slot machines? You see what I’m saying? Perspective.
Height: I want him taller than I am. Just a personal preference. Not difficult since I’m only 5′ 3″. Unless he’s Tyrion Lannister.
Bank Account: I don’t care about money. I’m not into brands or monetary things. Having said that, it’s not sexy when a guy lives with his mom unless he’s there to take care of her, but if she still washes his underoos, peace out, buddy.
Man Parts: I’m not the kind of girl who would know anything about a guy’s man parts until I know his personality and his sense of humor. If those two things are big, I’m not going to complain. See question one for why.
Wrong hole! Does that mean fun time is over or proceed with caution?
Well, the fun’s not so much over as it just means that you lose a stroke and now your Uncle Gary is probably going to get through the one that has the windmill first, and he’ll have more points and he will most certainly win the last pair of glow in the dark vampire teeth and you will be stuck there, holding your club, while everyone walks by and laughs, like always.
Oh. We aren’t playing miniature golf? My bad.
I do not buy the “wrong hole” excuse, nor do I think that “surprise!” is acceptable foreplay. Aim. Ask permission. Or assume the position.
Not interested. AT ALL.
Wrong hole? Like an ear? A nostril? Yeesh.
Nothing that isn’t wrong with men who don’t. They just express it more eloquently. I like men who are good with words.
There’s something wrong with men who blog? I love men who blog.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with men who blog, because if there were something wrong with them, there’d have to be something wrong with zee lady bloggers too.
I can’t think of anything wrong with men who blog. I’ve gotten to meet so many through this series, and all of the ones who’ve had an invite into the cave are some of my favorite men on the internet. (I’m choosy with who comes in the cave.) I find it endearing to read a man’s thoughts, to see the funny and the heartfelt, and to be welcomed into that corner of their minds. So nothing.
Can you be a man who drinks a PSL?
Yes! Silly question. I would appreciate that he had a preference other than black coffee. As long as he doesn’t forget to get my Vanilla Cappuccino Steamer when he goes to get them for us.
Probably not. Unless you’re metrosexual, but I will still judge you. Not a fan of the PSL, or any super sweet hot drink.
I don’t understand the PSL obsession, mostly because I’m not a fan of coffee with so much fucking milk in it. Bleck. Give me an Americano with a little foam and some cinnamon any day. Men can drink whatever pussy drink they want as long as they own the fuck out of that PSL.
I cannot be a man who drinks a PSL because I have a vagina, so that’s physically impossible, at least at the moment. I can be a woman who chooses against PSL because they stick to the back of my throat and make me want to do that hawking thing that guys do when they fling their snot.
Are PSLs made by sorcerers? Do they turn leprechaun tears of joy into a hot delicious drink? What else could make a PSL so damn delicious?
Have you met Carly? She could make a PSL delicious, but she’s not a sorcerer or a leprechaun. She’s a little rainbow unicorn…
Also, sorry, Jeff, that I didn’t seem to get this question to my SisterWives, so you’re stuck with just my answer unless they want to weigh in down in the comments. I have no idea why it didn’t copy/paste like the rest, and I never went back to check. I’ll buy you a PSL to make up for it and drink a black coffee whilst grabbing my balls while you drink it. Oh wait. Stereotypes, aren’t they a bitch?
So, what are your thoughts? Do you beg to differ? Would you find it repulsive if your very small boyfriend who lives with his mom drank a PSL? Or would that make you want to masterbate? Are you a male who blogs and drinks PSL’s? Would you like to participate in a study? I should stop typing. Hang out with us in the comments and tell us what we got wrong and what we got right.
A big dick wielded by a bigger dick… yeah the world needs less of that. Great piece. Loved the answers.
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Can someone tell the big dick dicks this please?
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I’ll speak up every chance I get.
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OMG I love you guys so much.
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Awwww. Love you back
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Hell yes Mandi! Question number 1. Your answer. Hell freakin’ yes. If you have never reached the end of the rainbow, you need to get acquainted with yourself. Why would anyone deny themselves? (I’m going to forever use that rainbow metaphor now. I’ll try to refrain from shouting “Magically Delicious” when I reach that big pot of… um… fun.)
As for the wrong hole? Pfffttt. No woman buys that. Not cool.
And I’m sure there are some women who only care about the size of the bank account or the guys looks/height. Whatever. Those are miserable cold people if that’s how they choose their mate.
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Magically delicious. Never forgetting this. Ever.
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“I’m choosy with who comes in the cave.” As well you should be, Mandi…as long as you let me in the cave 😉
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You’re always welcome in the cave.
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*wink*
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“Less than a minute”?????
Also, extra points to Chrissy for use of the word “wield.”
Nice, ladies! Hey Mandi I need to talk to you for a minute…. 😉
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You’re funny.
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You should see me snore.
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Stellar insights, ladies. Funny too.
I don’t know what that coffee drink tastes like. Because of that, since last week, I’ve dubbed myself the Anti-Consumer.
Chrissy’s insights on size: a big win. Among all the other wins throughout the article, of course. Like “Jilling Off.”
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These girls. I love them.
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There are seriously women that don’t? How do they concentrate on anything ever? An official verb has just entered the Swedish dictionary: “att klittra” which sounds just right to me.
Oddly enough, I’ve jus been giving some thought to the fact that in real life I go for men I need climbing gear to scale, and yet all my celebrity crushes are tiny wee men I could hold in the palm of my hand. What’s going on there?
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Is that like a location on a map given to men? Find att klittra and focus on that.
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If there’s one thing Swedish men don’t need, it’s a map 😉
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PSL and some humorous and honest reading material for my Thursday. Thanks ladies.
🙂
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I am learnin’ stuff now… and blushing…
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Loved this! Haha! I don’t get PSL either.
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THIS WAS AMAZING. I love you all more than I love PSL.
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Omg! I’ve been mentioned in a Mandi Cave post! And in such a flattering way! *has arrived*
Some days, when I manage to make latte art, I do question whether I actually am a sorceror.
Also, masterbate? Masturbate?
And finally, thank you for coining it “the end of the rainbow” and then coining ME a rainbow unicorn. If that doesn’t make me feel like a dominatrix, I don’t know what will.
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#1 – I am so turned on by this blog post and the sexy lady bloggers here.
#2 – The masturbation question. Refer to #1.
#3 – Size? I have been told I have a massive “personality” and sense of humor.
#4 – Fuck yes, I’m a man who blogs, and blogs hard!
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I never knew so many here HATE the PSL! I made pumpkin, just roasted, with cinnamon and nutmeg on, and I snacked for three days on it, and it was glorious 😉
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I like one slice of pumpkin pie a year. It sticks in the back of my throat and I can’t stand it. Margaritas do too, but they make me smiley, so I tolerate them.
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Once a year, for tradition, seems fair for pumpkin pie 🙂 My mum makes SUCH good pumpkin pie…all filled with gorgeous nutmeg and a real pumpkin, rather than canned. Annnnnd hey! There’s another thing I can no longer have 😉
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Thank you Lizzie. I’ve been going nuts trying to figure out what PSL means. Got it! I hate coffee in any form, so I’ll stick with my Spice Dragon Red Chai tea. I love pumpkin flavored things: bread, cake, cheesecake, ice cream.
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I tried to elude to PSL in my title because I didn’t know either.
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I’m so dense. Obviously, I didn’t read the entire title. LOL!
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Well it is a long one
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Hehehehee this is knowledge long borne of those “what the hell are they on about?” moments…
I am learning to like coffee…but WHERE can you get pumpkin bread?
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Pumpkin bread is a little bit sweet, and absolutely yummy! We can buy a mix in the grocery store around this time of year to make it, or make it using a recipe from scratch. Around here it’s a seasonal thing if you want to find it freshly made. It’s not unlike banana or zucchini bread, in that it’s not a yeast or risen bread, it’s a quickbread using pumpkin flesh and traditional pumpkin spices.
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Ohhhhh I LIKE THAT IDEA! Wow…now I want some 😀 Sounds so good.
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You make the Pumpkin bread 🙂 *swoon*
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It’s sublime. (Krusteaz mix).
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Love the answers! Ever since I learned about lingham massage, I find those videos to be a fabulous accompaniment to finding the end of the rainbow. I very much appreciate a man who blogs.Wrong hole ain’t happening here. And as for size, I’m with Beth. And yes, there is such a thing as too big.
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Y’all had me crying at the end…of the rainbow. And I mean tears of laughter.
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You are probably the funniest chicks on the Internet! And yeah, I’m a big fan of the Chrissy-ism, “big dicks wielding big dicks!” Great one!
That being said, please keep in mind that you can’t make butter with a toothpick.
As for money- hell yes, he needs a lot of money! This might just be a generalization, but any woman who says money doesn’t matter ain’t never been poor!
I wanna play next time! Here’s hoping my head won’t be lodged up my ass next month.
It wasn’t my fault. It was the wrong hole…
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