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Great Balls of Holly!
WELCOME TO THE FIRST ANNUAL SISTERWIVES HOLIDAY PARTY!!!
We have all sorts of goodies to offer you. We had the party catered – no expense was spared!
Everybody loves shrimp…
We thought these were festive:
Anybody remember what these are? Oh, right! Caprese! Yum!
It wouldn’t be a party without a little alcohol. Or a lot…
Samara loves champagne.
Mandi mixed up some holiday punch. It packs a wallop!
Beth made these gorgeous holiday cocktails.
At the last minute, Samara snuck in some mistletoe…
We’d each like to take a moment, and share with you some of our holiday traditions.
Lizzi’s internet is being a giant asshole, so we’re stepping in to share her tradition: Lebkuchen biscuits.
Every Christmas, she grinds her own spices for these biscuits while listening to Bach’s Christmas music – specifically Tohnet ihr Pauken – and shares her baking with friends and family. Enjoy some Bach while you read the rest of the post…
For the Lebkuchen spice 2 tblsp ground cinnamon 2 tsp ground cloves 1/2 tsp ground allspice 1/4 tsp ground nutmeg 1/2 tsp ground coriander 1/2 tsp ground cardamom 1/2 tsp ground ginger 1/2 tsp ground star anise seed
If you are grinding your own spice mix, it’s worth increasing the quantities several times over and then saving the rest in an airtight container to use another day.
For the biscuits
Dry ingredients: 300g Plain white flour 100g Almonds (ground) 2 tblsp Lebkuchen spice 4tblsp Cocoa powder 1tsp Baking powder 1tsp Bicarbonate of soda
Wet ingredients: 250g Honey 85g Butter (unsalted)
~~Step 1~~ Weigh out the dry ingredients into a medium bowl. Put the flour and cocoa powder through a sieve. If you ground your own spices, put the spice mix through a sieve, too. ~~Step 2~~ Melt the wet ingredients in a pan over a low heat until the butter melts and the mixture goes smooth and glossy, then pour it over the dry ingredients and mix well until the dough is combined and fairly stiff. Cover and leave to cool for 30 minutes. ~~Step 3~~ Heat oven to 180°C/355°F (fan 160°C/320°F, gas mark 4). ~~Step 4~~ Add more flour if the dough is still a bit soggy. Shape the dough into about 20 fat golf-ball sized balls. Place on baking trays lined with greaseproof paper or baking paper, leaving room for them to expand. Flatten each one with the palm of your hand to make a round biscuit about 1 cm thick. Bake for 15 minutes until just tinged brown on the edges, then cool on a wire rack.
~~Step 5~~ Enjoy the scent of baking and try not to eat the air – it’s worth waiting until the biscuits are cool and iced. ~~Step 6~~ In a small bowl, mix six heaped tblsps icing (confectioner’s) sugar with a few sploshes of amaretto until you have a smooth, runny consistency. Dip the top of half of the biscuits in the icing and leave to set. Add sprinkles as desired.
~~Step 7~~ Make a cup of tea (or coffee, or hot chocolate) and snuggle down with at least two of your freshly baked biscuits of utter AWESOMENESS. Cook’s perks, yo!
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Beth
Well, I don’t have beautiful music to share, but how about a pickle? Our Christmas tradition started with pickle related gifts that my dad started getting me y-e-a-r-s ago because his nickname for me is…you guessed it, Pickle. When my kids were born, he told me about an old German Christmas Eve tradition he remembered from his childhood, where the parents hang a pickle ornament deep in the branches of the Christmas tree. In the morning, the child who finds it first gets a special gift from St. Nicholas, or the first adult to find it gets a year of good luck. Well, of course my dad found one of these pickle ornaments, and my husband and I have followed this tradition with our kids every year. They look forward to it more than anything! (do I win for weirdest tradition??)
Laurie
Last year, I decided I needed to start a new tradition for myself. I live alone with my cat, and wanted to make Christmas a special time for myself independent of my family. I rushed around last minute to several stores, gathering supplies. And what I ended up doing was assembling a motley collection of international foods to enjoy on Christmas Eve or Christmas morning. Lebkuchen was actually one of them; now I’ll have to use Lizzi’s recipe! I intend to repeat the tradition again this year and I’m taking suggestions for international holiday food that I need to buy!
Hasty
I love traditions, although I don’t have many, they give us a way to hold onto people even when they are no longer around. My favorite tradition is one I started with my daughter the year she was born. In 2004, the Christmas movie, The Polar Express was released. In the beginning, I held her in my arms and as she slept I would imagine our future Christmas years together. Now, presently we both get our mugs of hot chocolate, put on our favorite comfy pajamas, get cozy under some soft blankets, and settle in next to our lit Christmas tree to watch our favorite Christmas movie. This year she doesn’t believe in Santa Claus but she does BELIEVE in the spirit of the tradition. I guess you can say my daughter has taught me the magic of tradition.
Samara
Because I celebrate Hanukkah and Christmas, I have several traditions. I do lots of cooking and baking for both holidays. I always bake a TON of Christmas cookies – baking is kind of my *thing.* My favorite tradition, however, is traveling up to Boston to spend Christmas with my best friend from college, and her family. She and I go waaaaay back, and we have that kind of decades-old bond that causes us to laugh constantly! Little Dude especially loves to spend Christmas there. He always ecstatic to find presents under the tree for him (we don’t have a tree). Christmas Day, we spend laughing and listening to music and the kids all hang out together while Mama and her BFF whip up an amazing holiday feast…and drink heavily.
Mandi
Much of my life revolves around music, and it’s no different during the holidays. Unlike a lot of you who change the station at the first mention of “Merry,” I happen to love the music this time of year. It’s my favorite to play on the piano. It started with my grandmother. Every year around Thanksgiving, she would get her Christmas music out and line it up against the stand on the piano, and I would sit with her while she played and sang. Side note: My grandmother (who lived to be 100) was a member of a band until she was 87 years old and traveled around the country dancing, singing, and playing the piano with her little geriatric entourage.
In honor of this tradition, I’ve adopted it into my own home. My children love music as much as I do, and they love playing the game, “Mom, can you play….?” Throughout the month of December, my home is filled with the melody of my piano, accompanied by the two best singers I know…oh, and there’s lots of laughter.
We would love it if you would share some of YOUR favorite holiday traditions with us in the comment section.
You have helped us form a magical community, full of love and support.
Alone, we are enough; together, we are STRONGER.
Whatever is beautiful. Whatever is meaningful. Whatever brings you happiness. May it be yours this holiday season and throughout the coming year.
Love,
Beth, Mandi, Hasty, Laurie, Sandy, Lizzi and Samara
You know how The Christmas Story plays for 24 hours on Christmas day every year? Well I watch it ALL DAMN DAY.
It’s dysfunctional and endearing which is basically most people’s family in a nutshell. Love it.
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That’s AWESOME! I love it.
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wow….
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I grew up Jewish and have had Christmas lust my whole life. I love to celebrate anything but reality can’t quite live up to the dream without the foundation of history, in my case anyways. So thanks for all your thoughts and vicarious thrills and have a very merry happy joyous Christmas Kwanzaa Chanukah, whatever lifts your heart and unites us all!
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Happy Chanukah, Brenda! Have a gorgeous holiday season, and thanks for being such a great supporter and friend to us!!
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Awww…loved reading about your traditions, ladies!
It seems that our Christmas is different every year and the only thing that stays the same is our “core four”–husby, daughter, son and myself. In fact, it doesn’t matter what we do as long as we are all together. My girl comes home from college tomorrow…I get to torture her for an entire month. Even at 20, I’m sure she’ll be the first one up on Christmas morning with a smile, a mug of chocolate and Christmas Vacation running in the background 🙂
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Wow, you have a college aged kid who gets up before the crack of noon? I’m impressed!
Your Christmas sounds lovely. Mmmm, chocolate!
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Love it! Thanks for sharing. My mom passed away several years ago, and my sisters and I get together and make her famous bourbon balls every year in her honor. They are decadent and tasty, and my co-workers and friends anxiously await their arrival each Christmas season. Yikes, the nuts have been soaking in bourbon for over a month now, so we’d best get busy! Happy Holidays!
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Yummy! Can you share the recipe here?
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Samara – I also had Christmas tree envy growing up, so when I got married we decided to have a small (about 3 feet tall) Hanukkah bush, and we put our presents under it. We leave it up until New Year’s because we love the pretty lights. Have a wonderful Holiday season to you and your readers !
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Oh, that’s lovely! I like to decorate my home for Hanukkah – I posted lots of pics on Facebook – but we don’t do any kind of bush or tree.
The colors of Hanukkah are so beautiful, aren’t they?
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I am here… in spirit… because I guess the invitation got lost in the mail… sob…
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Art, love, we posted it on Facebook and tweeted it!
And you’re here! Have a drink…
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I am so out of the loop
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Thank you so much. Didn’t gain any extra weight and thoroughly enjoyed it all. The music was especially good!
Leslie
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Hello ladies. Thank you for always making me feel welcome. I wish you all happy times over the next week and the new year.
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I’m glad you feel it. Because you ARE always, always welcome, cherie ❤
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This is the first Christmas since my mom died in Nov 2011 that has felt like Christmas and I can’t wait for next week! My brother, sister and I live in the same city but are far away from the rest of the family so it’s just us as a little unit. We have a lot of Christmas feels making the holidays tough, but for the most part we try to keep alive some of our childhood traditions and pass them down to my kids. It’s nice.
On Christmas Eve we have dinner and then go out to look at Christmas lights. We sing Christmas carols at the top of our lungs, changing the words to poke fun at a family member in each song. We laugh ourselves to tears and then come home for cocoa. In the morning, we open presents then have an apple dutch baby, then start making dinner. My sister and I crack jokes, mostly impersonating our mother’s Chamorro accent, and then we watch Pride & Prejudice.
Heh, writing all of that out, now I really can’t wait!
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Ohhh Christmas with grief on the horizon is HARD 😦 I’m so glad you’re looking forward to it and in a positive frame of mind 🙂
Your traditions are beautiful.
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Tradition…. Tradition!
Am I the only one with that song from Fiddler on the Roof stuck in my head now?
I don’t have a lot of Christmas traditions… which is odd, now that I think about it, since my life seems full of them otherwise. I guess my still fledgling family is in search of ones that we will keep in the years to come. Perhaps it will be finally putting ornaments on the tree on Christmas Eve. (Yes, the tree is up, and has lights strung beautifully, but no ornaments yet… cats and grabby toddler hands make procrastinating on that particular task very easy.) Perhaps it will be baking tons of cookies in the weeks leading up to Christmas, as was a tradition in the Queen’s home growing up. (So far we have five different kinds already baked, and have already run out of freezer space… we’re gonna need a bigger freezer.) Perhaps it will be driving around on Christmas Eve looking at how people have decorated their homes for the holidays, as was a tradition in my home growing up. (I always wanted to be one of those houses that everyone flocked to, and during college when I was renting a house with some friends, I made sure my house was the best decorated on the block… but now I live in a condo and haven’t put up lights in years.) Perhaps it will be something else… something the Little Prince starts… something silly… something wonderful… Only time will tell.
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But how exciting to have a tabula rasa for Christmas traditions, and to create them anew with your family 🙂 That sounds wonderful.
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Nice to hear about your traditions, ladies! We look at lights in our beautiful little mountain town in the weeks before, and then spend Christmas day with the kids and grandkids in a flurry of toys and wrapping paper. Mom will be with us, she loves watching the little kids run around. 🙂
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What a lovely post! Now I have to make Lebkuchen. Have a wonderful holiday ladies.
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Merry Christmas!
you are all simply FABULOUS))) !!! xx
Kisses from Minnesota.
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Beth! I have a pickle on my tree!!!
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Shut. up.
Michelle, you’re the first person Ive known EVER that has a pickle ornament too!
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I too have the pickle on my tree each year. My kids are 25 and 24 and they still fight like crazy to find the pickle. Now that they are older, we give them a Dunkin Donuts gift card when they find it. Love this tradition!
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Teri, that’s so cool! Is this something you or your husband did as a child? Is it German in origin (as in, passed down in the family from German roots)?
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I also have a plush uterus on my tree, so I think I might win weirdest tradition.
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Yeah, you might. I’m a little afraid to ask why….
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Well, I’m telling you anyway. A few years ago, I had my uterus burned out because it was acting up. One of my pseudo kids at work bought be a plush uterus (with a smiling face) as a get well gift. I didn’t know what to do with it…then I decided…THE CHRISTMAS TREE! It can be an ornament. So..that is why I have a uterus on my tree.
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My uterus went to “forever time out” too, 4 years ago. Now I’m oddly envious of your uterus ornament thingy.
I did have a badass “farewell ain’t flo” party with all my beds buds right before my surgery. That was awesome.
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AUNT Flo, damn autocorrect
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You win forsure! Yowwwzer!
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So happy to be invited 🙂
Really enjoyed this post. A Merry Christmas to all.
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I loved it all!! Especially the pickle tradition!! 🙂
For my home the heart of christmas & easter lies in the Kitchen 😛 My mom loves cooking and the rest of the family loves eating!! 🙂
Ever since we were kids On both Xmas & Easter we have a special menu.
Appam(a kind of pancake) & Stew for breakfast.
Lunch is the fun part with home made bread, full roasted Chicken and the like.
Evening ofcourse goes to the Xmas cake! 🙂
Btw, here is a glimpse into my land- Kerala, God’s Own Country 🙂
And here is an Xmas special video we came up with 🙂
MERRY CHRISTMAS to all of you!! 🙂 🙂
May God Bless Each One of You ALWAYS!!! 🙂 🙂 🙂
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This year – in honor of the huge changes in my life, I decided to do away with all of the old traditions and start anew. Instead of just sending cards to my siblings, I actually sent presents. Instead of expensive gifts for my kids, I made fused glass, wire wrapped jewelry for everyone (even my parents and siblings). Santa used to bring pajamas to be opened every Christmas Eve – but this year, no jammies – except for my grandbaby, who has a special “Frozen” pair (her new favorite thing) waiting for her in the walk-in closet my husband used when he lived here. Instead of leaving it empty, I put a little bed in there, decked out in Frozen bedding, along with Frozen decals on the walls, battery operated blue snowflake lights, and some new stuffed animals on the lower shelves. She’s coming tomorrow and I can’t wait to see her reaction. A best new tradition this year is that Christmas should be peaceful and happy – with no walking on eggshells wondering if the ex is going to have a tantrum – that is priceless!
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New traditions – new expectations – changed goalposts and things being never the way you thought they’d turn out. Ack. Good for you for making it work as much as you can, and making things which you know you’ll enjoy.
I wish you peace and times of happiness and that you are surrounded by love and light and Good Things this Christmas, Jana. *hugs*
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I am FINALLY here! Shhh! Don’t tell anyone (yet).
BW you did me PROUD. Thank you so very, very much 🙂
Samara – I love that your tradition is baking 🙂 So nice. I hope Little Dude is going to learn that from you and take that into his adulthood. I hope it’s the kind of thing which carries on down the generations 🙂
BW – pickle? really? How peculiar 🙂 I’ve never heard of such a thing, but it’s dead cute.
Mandi – I think I like yours best. Music, being *there* to play any requests for your two…piano… *happy sighs*
Hasty – your memory is so precious. Thanks for sharing it. I love how close you and your daughter are, and the warmth which is so evident in your relationship. It’s beautiful.
Laurie – let me know about the lebkuchen if you make them 🙂 Glad you have such solid, awesome things that you plan for yourself – beacons, all of them 🙂
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I’m so behind on the party because of the Christmas holidays, but at least I can always look back on it! This food makes me drool. #seriously
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Never too late to arrive at the partay!! *stands under mistletoe with you*
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